The temptation is real!
My wife just gave in. A friend's wife just did, too, and he'd not deliberately not shown her a video of some asshat "provoked" by a MAGA hat just to keep her from doing it. At some point, a lot of women look at Brett Kavanaugh and the Covington kids and think, "That could be my husband or son!" And then the tigress comes out...
Umm, "deliberately not", not "not deliberately".
We don't really make a point of grammar here. We're bad enough at it that it would redound. :)