We, who are not narcissists and who don't look into mirrors all that much, fail to pay attention. An ordinary seeming lady asked me the other day for my hair color and I said brown. I figured it was close enough for government work.
I don't care. It's always been brown and is still brownish and 40 years later it still won't lie down and I don't care.
Some of us plan to age gracefully and others never thought we would grow old.